她唯一的选择
塔莎 你想去游乐场玩玩吗？ Hey Tasha, do you want to go to the playground?
我们都在这儿坐了一整天了 We've been sitting here all day.
所以呢？ So?
我们进屋去玩我的游戏机吧 Let's go inside and play on my Game Boy.
不要 伯尼 我就想蹲在这里 No Bernie, I just wanna sit here.
看呐 Look at what we got here.
给我看看 Let me see this.
还给我 Give it back!
还给他 Give it back to him!
滚回家找你那病秧子妈哭去吧 Go home and cry to your sickly mother!
你再说一遍试试 Don't you ever say that again!
塔莎 Tasha!
过来 Come here.
到这儿来 宝贝 Come all the way here, baby.
怎么了 What's wrong?
没怎么 Nothing.
怎么了？ What happened?
你和伯尼又吵架了吗 You and Bernie get mad at each other again?
那是有人欺负你了吗？ I see, somebody bothered you?
谁？ Who was it?
威廉 他讲话很难听 It was William. He was being mean.
威廉？ William?
宝贝 那小子就是个烦人精 Oh girl, that boy ain't nothing but trouble.
我来处理 I'll go handle this.
妈妈 你还是躺下吧 Uh Mama, lay back down.
不行 我可忍不了 No, I can't have that, baby.
虽然我很想爬起来 但我就是起不来 我... I guess as much as I wanna get up I can't, baby. I...
没办法 I just can't.
没事的 妈妈 It's okay, Mama.
去那儿站着 Go on stand in the middle of the floor.
快去 Go on.
然后呢？ Now what?
听着 握拳 All right, I want you to ball your fists up
紧紧地握着 然后旋转着挥打拳头 as tightly as you can, and I want you to spin 'em around
就像风车那样 like a windmill.
哈？ Huh?
就像我们在农场上看见的风车那样 You know, like the big windmills we see on the farm.
为什么？ Why?
因为下次再有人欺负你 宝贝 Because when something or somebody bothers you, sweetie,
你得还击 you gotta fight back.
我不能一直在你身边保护你 I'm not always gonna be around to defend you.
别垂头丧气 No, uh uh. Don't do that.
抬起头来 Pick your head up.
现在我数到三 All right? Now on the count of three,
我希望你使出全力挥舞拳头 I want you to spin your arms as wild as you can
把对手击倒为止 好吗？ until you knock 'em down, okay?
-嗯 -一 二 三 - Mm-hmm. - One, two, three.
转起来 塔莎 就是这样 宝贝 Spin 'em Tasha, there you go, there you go, baby.
我晕了 I'm dizzy.
好了 过来 All right, come here.
躺下来 Get up here with me.
你要知道 塔莎 强大并不仅限于身体 You see Tasha, strength isn't just physical,
精神与情感上也可以很强大 it's mental and emotional too.
我需要你强大起来 And I need you to be strong.
好吗 明白吗？ All right? You understand?
答应我？ You promise?
答应你 Promise.
香一个 Come here.
二十年后
祝你生日快乐 祝你生日快乐 亲爱的塔莎 Happy birthday to you. Happy birthday dear Tasha
我美丽性感聪慧老是提醒我放下马桶圈的老婆My beautiful sexy intelligent wife who always makes me put the toilet seat down.
天呐 伯尼 Oh God Bernie!
我本来还有15分钟可以睡 你把我吵醒了 You woke me up when I have 15 minutes of sleep left.
那又怎样 今天是你生日 Well, so what? It's your birthday.
真是好嗓子 堪比贝瑞·怀特 Oh sing, my Barry White. Sing!
快点 So go ahead.
许个愿 吹个蜡烛 Make a wish and blow out that candle.
我滴老天爷啊 宝贝 Yeah, oh. My goodness, baby.
怎么了 What?
但愿你许的是口气清新的愿 Ohhh, I hope your wish was for fresher breath.
-伯尼 -天呐 - Bernie. - Goodness, woman.
你今天最好是把一整管牙膏都用了 You need to use all of the toothpaste this morning.
你认真的吗？ Are you serious--
还有漱口水和牙线 And the mouthwash and you need to floss too.
然后再在上班的路上 And you need to get a pack of Tic Tacs
买一包薄荷糖 on your way to work.
够了 伯尼 Shut it, Bernie.
开玩笑的 I'm just saying.
闭嘴行不？ Would you shut up?
对了 我和托尼准备 Anyway, uh, me and Tony we gotta go lay a carpet
在布莱克利路的新办公室铺个地毯 at that new office complex on Blakely Road.
不是很远 我会按时回家 It's not that far. I should be back in time
去你爸爸那儿吃晚饭 to head out to your dad's for dinner.
是今晚吗？ Is that tonight?
你还有另一个生日吗？ Your birthday on another night we don't know about?
不是 我只是在想 No, it's just, you know I was just trying to think
能不能跳过那些逢场作戏的部分 if maybe we could skip all the dramatics
去过只属于我俩的夜晚 and just spend a nice quiet evening just the two of us.
他不会同意的 Like he's going to allow that.
梅尔文又不是我老板 Melvin ain't the boss of me.
但他是你生日的头头 No, he's just the boss of your birthday.
-是的 说的没错 -嗯 - Hmm, he is isn't he? - Hmm.
好吧 Fine.
我再睡个十分钟的回笼觉 You know, I'm going back to sleep for ten more minutes then.
粘了点儿糖霜 You got a little icing right there.
真好吃 Mmm, thank you.
再允许你睡十分钟 小寿星 You get your last ten minutes of sleep birthday girl.
好的 贝瑞·怀特 All right my Barry White.
-回见 -知道了 - And I'll see you later. - I heard you.
停 住手 Stop, stop.
孩子们 我需要你们在练习本上 Boys and girls, I need you to be writing these math--
抄下这些数学公式 Math equations in your notebooks.
别再笑了 Enough with all the giggling.
好吧 我跟你们说... Okay, what did I te--
生日快乐 杰克逊老师 Happy birthday, Mrs. Jackson.
天呐 Oh, would you look at this.
谢谢你们 你们真是善良体贴的小天使 Thank you, that was so kind and thoughtful of each of you.
你们可不可以排好队 Now if you would, please line up
把你们漂亮的小卡片放在我桌子上呀 and place your beautiful cards on my desk.
我待会儿再慢慢欣赏 I will enjoy them later.
排成一队大家 一队 Single file line everyone, single file line.
谢谢大家 爱你们 Thank you, my dear.
真的非常感谢 Thank you so much.
太体贴了 That's so thoughtful.
噁 Ew!
孩子们 别管我 Kids, if-- If you could excuse me for a moment,
回到座位上 好吗 Take your seats. Take your seats. Okay.
你知不知道我今天在全班面前吐了 You know I threw up in front of the kids
把他们恶心到了 and grossed them out today?
知道 你说好几遍了 Yes, yes you told me several times.
但我今天和往常一样 喝的同样的咖啡 也许是牛奶坏了 I got my usual morning coffee but... maybe the milk was sour.
这你也说过了 这样吧 Yeah, maybe and you told me that too, look.
我们就待一小会儿就走 行吗? We just stay a little while then we leave, all right?
顶多一小时 Hour tops.
真的吗？ You promise?
是啊 我才不想在这儿待一晚上 Yeah, I'm not trying to stay here all night.
走吧 早去早走 Come on, let's get this out of the way.
为什么这么黑 晚上都不开灯 Why is it so dark in here, man. It's nighttime.
开灯 Turn the lights on.
惊喜 Surprise!
我的小寿星来了 There's my birthday girl.
惊喜吗？ Were you surprised?
简直惊吓 老爸 Surprised is an understatement, Daddy.
你真没必要这么麻烦 You really didn't have to go through all this trouble.
这都是布伦达的主意 It was Brenda's idea.
梅尔文 别拍了 Melvin get that camera out of her face,
寿星到了 the girl just got here.
30岁生日快乐 塔莎 Happy 30th birthday, Tasha.
谢谢 布伦达 Thank you so much, Brenda.
来人 给塔莎个盘子 Somebody make Tasha a plate.
她是寿星她最大 She's the birthday girl. She gets served first.
在上面放上我的通心粉和奶酪 不要卡罗尔做的那个 And put a heap of my mac 'n' cheese on there, not Carol's.
你不会想吃卡罗尔做的的 You don't want any of Carol's mac 'n' cheese,
她没有选对奶酪和佐料 she don't use the right cheeses or seasonings,
我都不知道她为什么要买 and I don't even know why she brought it
明知道我的最好 when she knows mine is the best.
相信我 我今晚什么也不想吃 好吗 Oh, trust me, I don't need a heap of anything tonight, okay?
当然要吃 你看你骨瘦如柴 Of course you do, look at you, you're skin and bones.
屁股都没肉了 What you have against hips I'll never know.
开玩笑吧 你见过我的翘臀没 Wait are you serious, have you seen my, mmm.
好吧 来会会 Okay, well put it there.
嗯 嗯 Uhhh, uhhh.
再来一下 One more.
嗯 Uhhh.
-好了 -好了 - All right now. - All right now.
今天来的人真多呀 是吧 Wow what a spread we got tonight, huh?
嗨 Hi.
大家都过来一下 拿点吃的 Everybody come on in here and get some food.
马上我们要看 Okay, 'cause after this we're gonna watch
塔莎出生的视频了 Tasha's birth video.
别吧 老爸 不要 No, Daddy not tonight.
求你了 咱能略过出生视频吗？ Please, can we skip the birth video this year?
说什么疯话 You talking crazy.
我们每一年都看 We watch that video every year since you was born.
但今年可以不看 But we can skip this year.
这样行不行... 帮我啊 How about-- Help me.
大家好 Hi everybody.
老爸 我们真得给你换个好点儿相机了 Daddy, we really gotta upgrade you on that camera.
这相机是我最明智的购物选择了 It's the best investment that I ever made this camera.
家用录像系统？ VHS?
别他妈拍了 Get that God damn camera out of my face
赶紧帮我 你个傻子 and help me you idiot.
去你丫的 - Screw you!
天呐 Oh my God.
宝贝 嘿 塔莎 Baby, hey, Tasha.
-宝贝 醒醒 -怎么回事？ - Baby, hey, hey. - What happened?
麻烦弄点水来可以吗？ Could somebody get some water?
塔莎 Tasha?
-听着 -嗯 - Hey listen. - Hmm.
-额... -什么？ - Um... - What?
我觉得你应该 I think you should take one of those
做做家用的怀孕测试 home pregnancy tests.
伯尼 测试什么呢？ Oh, Bernie. Honey for what?
七年来 医生一直跟我说我不能生育 Seven years of being told that my eggs aren't fertile?
伯尼 我不可能怀孕 Bernie, a baby isn't possible for us.
我懂 但是... Well, babe I get all that, but look...
你今天在学校吐了 在派对上晕倒了 You threw up at school, you passed out at the party
月事也晚了 and your cycle is late.
这不就是女人怀孕的征兆吗？ Isn't that what happen to a woman when she's pregnant?
不可能 It's impossible.
好吧 晚了几天？ Okay, how late are you?
-两周 -两周 你看 - Two weeks. - See, two-- Come on.
-怎么了？ -测一下吧 宝贝 - What? - Just take the test, baby.
宝贝 就算怀孕了 我也需要医生证实 Honey, if I am pregnant, I need a doctor to confirm it.
亲爱的 马上就是年检了 Honey, listen it's almost time for my annual exam,
我马上就会知道了 好吗？ I'll just get the full work up, okay?
-嗯 -行吗？ - Yeah? - That work?
-可以 -好的 - That works. - Good.
很好 Good, all right.
好好休息 Get some rest.
好吧 我们来玩“万一怎么样”的游戏吧 Okay, fine so let's play what if.
准备好了吗？ Are you ready?
我有的选吗？ Do I have a choice.
-没有 -好吧 - No. Okay. - Okay.
万一老天开眼 我怀孕了怎么办？ What if, by some divine intervention, I am pregnant?
-嗯 -嗯哼 - Hmm. - Mm-hmm.
你想要男孩还是女孩？ Would you want a baby boy or a baby girl?
这个... Well...
我不知道 性别不重要 Yeah, I don't know. It doesn't really matter.
只要是个健康宝宝就好 I just want a healthy baby.
小子 别装了 Boy, stop playing.
你知道你想要男孩 You know you want a boy. You know you want a baby boy.
好吧 我承认 Yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, I admit I would...
我有一点倾向于男孩 have a little more in common with a boy.
只是一点？ Mm-hmm, just a little.
只是一点 Just a little bit.
-如果他像我 有着擅长于投球的手臂 -嗯 - If he was anything like me he'd have that throwing arm. - Mm-hmm.
我就会培养他 让他进国家橄榄球联盟 I'd train him all the way up to the NFL.
唔 Aww.
然后他就可以给我们在汉普顿买个大房子 And he could buy us a big house in the Hamptons.
富人们都住在那里 Where all the rich people live.
我们可以四处参加晚宴 We could go to all the dinner parties,
品着红酒... 我会学一口口音 and sip on our wine, and um... I would develop an accent,
然后到处跑着这样说话 and I would go around saying things
比如说 “今天天气真好啊 亲爱的” like um... "Lovely weather we're having, darling."
对吧 Right, right?
您好 "How do you do?
您好 How do you do?
天气怎样 清新怡人 How is the weather; Crisp and clean and fresh?"
-就是这样 -我说的好吧 - Right. - You see I talk well?
你要这样说话吗？ Yeah, yeah you gonna talk like that?
那你去房间那头说去 You gonna have to do that on the other side of the room.
而且你不喝酒 所以... Oh. And you don't drink wine so...
-我想我会喝的 -好吧 - I bet I would start. - Right.
一百美金一瓶的酒 或者一百一口的酒也喝吗 When you're paying a hundred dollars a bottle, or a sip?
该死 - Shoot.
好吧 那 如果是个女孩呢 Okay so, what if we had a girl.
女孩？ 那她一定超可爱 Oh, a baby girl? She'd be so cute.
嗯 Yeah.
谁知道呢 也许她会成为未来的总统 I don't know maybe she would become president.
嗯 Yes.
给世界带来和平 And bring about world peace.
嗯 这个我喜欢 I like that.
-你喜欢？ -嗯 - You like that? - Mm-hmm.
嗯 噢 Mmm. Oh.
有礼了! Namaste.
我十分确定你这个词用错了场合 I'm pretty sure your using that word in the wrong context.
我只是想说而已 真扫兴 I told you I just like saying it, joy stealer.
好吧 你继续 小点儿声哈 All right, you keep saying it. Say it real low
我要睡了 'cause I'm going to sleep.
别嘛 Stop.
-去睡吧 -好吧 - Go to bed lady, goodness. - Whatever.
塔莎 你的年检做完了 Well Tasha, we're all done with your annual physical,
血样已经取了 we have your blood work,
但是由于你家族的乳腺癌史 but because of your family's history with breast cancer...
我猜猜 你想要我去隔壁的放射科 Ah, let me guess, you need me to go to radiology
照乳房X线照片 next door for my mammogram?
没错 Precisely.
我照了五年了 I've been getting mammograms for the past five years
贝莉医生 程序我清楚得很 Doctor Bailey, I know the routine.
但那些机器 天啊 真是太不舒服了 But those machines, oh my God, they are so uncomfortable.
我知道照这个X光很不舒服 I know that mammograms can be uncomfortable,
但是因为你体内携带有乳腺癌的突变基因 but because you carry the mutated gene for breast cancer,
所以在年轻时做好检查 it's really important that you get your checkups
还是很重要的 at this early age.
明白 Understood.
那如果我怀孕了呢 But what if I am pregnant?
那我现在还能去照乳房X光吗？ I mean is it okay for me to get a mammogram right now?
那么强的辐射 我不知道... With all that radiation, it's just-- I don't--
通常来讲 这个X光对孕妇来说是安全的 Normally, mammograms are safe during pregnancy
因为辐射量很小 because the amount of radiation is minimal.
但是塔莎 我不希望你抱太大希望 But Tasha, I don't want you getting your hopes up.
你怀孕的几率 Your chances are less than five percent
低于百分之五 of becoming pregnant.
你的卵子无法受孕 Your eggs just aren't fertile.
我知道 I got it.
我明白 I know.
你没事吧 Are you gonna be okay?
没事 I will be.
好吧 那咱们先把衣服穿好再说 Okay well, get dressed and we'll talk soon okay?
谢谢 贝莉医生 Thank you, Doctor Bailey.
我们把地毯拿出来 准备好铺上了 So we get the carpet out, ready to install it,
我把它卷开 然后我看到了那些划痕 and I unroll it and I see all these cuts,
整张都有 all through the whole roll,
都是划痕 a whole bunch of cuts on the carpet.
完全毁了 不能用了 Yeah, it was completely ruined. Couldn't use any of it.
所以顾客很不满意 理由很明显 The customer was unsatisfied, of course, for obvious reasons.
我和托尼浪费了两天时间 And it set me and Tony back two days,
我们要弄到新地毯 we'll have to get new carpet
然后按时铺上 and still have it installed on time.
-嗯 -真是疯了 - Hmm. - It's crazy.
塔莎？ Tasha?
宝贝？ Baby?
怎么了？ What's up?
你有听我讲话吗？ Have you listened to a word I said?
听了 你说“地毯 划痕 推迟” Yeah, you said, "carpet, slices, pushback."
嗯 Right.
不过我比较有意思的一点是 就是... It's this funny thing about me though, you know, it's like
当我和别人说话的时候 我喜欢别人和我互动 所以... when I talk to someone, I like when they interact with me, so.
-宝贝 对不起 -嗯 - Honey, I'm sorry. - Hmm.
我不知道 我现在脑子里事情太多了 I don't know. I've just been having so much on my mind
我很累 and of course I'm tired,
我不知道我是怎么了 I don't know what's going on with me.
总想着体检结果 Well, thinking about the test results
并不会让医生的电话早点响 is not gonna make the phone ring any faster.
嗯 Yeah.
不过它现在确实让门铃响了 是吧 Well, it did make something ring now didn't it?
-嗯 -你真是太幽默了 - Mm, mm, mm. - Yeah, you're funny. Not really.
-马上回来 -嗯 - Be right back. - Mm-hmm.
来客人了 We have a guest.
嘿 Hey.
我就是顺路来看看她怎么样 Just thought I'd come by and see how she was doing.
挺好的 爸爸 好多了 Oh, I'm doing good Daddy, much better.
你怎么样 小伙子 How you doing, young man?
挺好的 我们刚在吃晚餐 I'm good man, we just having dinner.
赶巧 Good.
我刚好饿了 'Cause I am hungry.
噢 我给你拿碗 Oh, I'll get you a bowl.
伯尼告诉我那天晚上 So, Bernie informed me that the other night
你录了些很不错的视频 you got some really great video footage.
-我哪支视频拍的不好 -嗯 - I always get good video footage. - Mm-hmm.
她说她受不了 Well, she says that she can't stand
你整天拿个相机什么都拍 the fact that you always gotta video tape everything.
我不是什么都拍 I don't video everything.
我只拍重要的东西 I just video the important stuff.
那我在我生日派对上晕过去了算重要？ So, me passing out at my party was important?
当然了 Well, yeah.
老爸 那很丢人的好吧 Daddy, come on, that is embarrassing.
别再给任何人看那个视频了 Don't show that video to anyone.
你说的任何人是指谁？ When you say anyone, you mean what?
谁也不行 Anyone.
好吧 Fine.
但总有一天 你会回看那个视频 But one day, you're gonna look back at that footage
并且感谢它 and you gonna appreciate it.
到时候你就会明白我为什么录那些东西 And then you gonna realize why I video everything.
生活很珍贵 宝贝 Because life is precious, baby,
我得捕捉下那些瞬间 and I capture those moments
这样你就有念想了 so that you have something to hold onto.
因为那些视频 你还好好念着你的妈妈 You even hold onto your mothers memory because of it.
是的 爸爸 我感谢它们 Yes, Daddy, and I do appreciate it,
但我晕倒的视频必须删了 but video of me fainting needs to be destroyed.
你有去看医生吗？ Have you gone to the doctor to find out
查清你为什么会晕倒？ why you passed out?
去了 我们正在等结果 Yes, and we're waiting on the results.
布伦达和我觉得你吃的不健康 Well, Brenda and I think it's because you don't eat right.
你真要今晚开始讨论这个吗 You seriously gonna start that tonight?
看看你们今晚吃的这些 Well, just look at this for example, huh?
这是些什么鬼 屎蓉蛋 I mean, what is this okay, this "egg poo young" nonsense?
这是芙蓉蛋 梅尔文 It's egg foo yong, Melvin.
我说它是屎蓉就是屎蓉 这都不算一顿饭 "Poo young". Whatever it is, okay? It's not a wholesome meal.
你知道你该怎么做 对吧 You know what you need to do, right?
上点厨艺课 Take some cooking classes.
没错 Exactly.
什么？ Excuse me?
我什么也没说 I didn't say nothing.
你不是因为我的厨艺娶了我 对吧 You didn't marry me for my cooking, now did you?
不是的 老婆 不是 Mm. No ma'am I did not.
不好意思 我不是来听你们撒狗粮的 Excuse me, I ain't trying to hear all that now, all right?
听什么 老爸？ What, Daddy?
听我们说我们做爱吗？ That we have sex?
塔莎 Tasha.
我之前想和你好好进行一下性教育来着 I tried to have that talk with you
在你还小的时候 when you was a little girl.
跟你谈一谈性 你知道的 That talk with you about sex?
你却什么也不想听 You didn't want to hear nothing about it.
看看现在的你 Now look at you.
塔莎 塔莎 Tasha. Tasha.
干嘛？ Yeah?
我想跟你谈谈 I want to talk to you for a minute.
布伦达建议你今天待在家里 Brenda suggested that maybe you stay home today.
毕竟你 你开始来月经了 You know since you, well you know, started menstruation.
天呐 老爸 你非要讲那么大声吗 God Dad, don't say that out loud.
对不起 我不懂那些 I'm sorry, okay? I don't know all the rules.
额... 她教你用小垫子了吗？ Um, did she teach you about those little pads?
别说了行不行 Please let this to be the end of the talk.
不然杀了我也行 Or my life.
你想让我带你去商店吗？ Do you want me to take you to the store?
需要什么吗？ Do you need something?
不要 No.
那你有什么问题吗？ So, do you have any questions?
没有 No.
塔莎 毕竟从今天起你就正式成了一个女人 Tasha, you know, since you are becoming a woman as of today,
我还以为你会有问题要问的 I don't know, I thought maybe you might have a few questions.
问什么？ Questions about what?
你对性知道些什么？ What do you know about sex?
我不想和你讲这些 I'm not having this talk with you.
你得讲 好吗 Yes you are, okay.
你妈不在了 所以... Your mother is not here, okay so,
除了我你还能跟谁讲这些？ who else are you gonna talk to about it but me?
爸 Dad.
塔莎 我是认真的 Look Tasha, I am serious about this okay?
我小时候 没人跟我讲这些 When I was a kid, no one told me anything about sex.
我对于性爱的一切 Everything I learned about sex
都是从一首叫“我们开始吧”的歌里学的 was from a song called "Let's Get It On."
嗯 Hmm.
我得去听听这个 Have to look that one up.
不 你不准 No you don't.
多年之后 也许当你60岁以后 Look many years from now... maybe when you're 60 or so,
你会想要做爱 you know you're gonna wanna have sex.
60岁吗 老爹？ 60 dad?
不是吧 Come on.
好吧 大概40 45岁吧 All right, 40, 45, something like that.
我才不要等那么久 I'm not waiting that long,
我就告诉你吧 and let me save us both from this devastation.
我在学校已经接受过性教育了 I've already had sex ed at school.
我知道性爱 阴道 阴茎 卵子和精子 I know about sex, the vagina, penis, egg, and sperm.
性传染疾病 等等 Sexually transmitted diseases, all that.
-但是还有一些... -没什么了 爸爸 - Okay, but there's more-- - But nothing, Dad.
别那么紧张 Stop stressing. I'm gonna wait
我会等到结婚再享有性爱的 till I get married to have sex.
我要有一场美妙的婚礼 I want to have a beautiful wedding,
就像你和妈妈那样 just like you and Mom had.
有一个孩子满堂跑的家 五个孩子 I want a house full of children, five.
五个？ Five?
我连他们的名字都想好了 And I have their names picked out too.
帕特丽夏 跟妈妈一个名字 Patricia, after Mom of course.
坎蒂丝 这样我就能给她取个小名“糖果” Candice, so I can nickname her Candy.
不行 这听起来有点像脱衣舞娘 这个划掉 Oh wait, that sounds like a stripper name. Scratch that one.
阿方索这个名字不错 And Alfonzo is gonna be amazing.
好吧 我看出来你都计划好了 Okay. I see you have this all planned out, all right?
就不需要把每个细节都讲一遍了 We don't have to go through every single detail.
很好 那我现在得去上学了 Great. Now I gotta go to school.
谈话愉快吧？ Good talk, huh?
希望吧 I hope.
做的不错 齐诺比亚 Great work, Zinobia.
贝莉医生办公室
好了 同学们 我得接个电话 All right class, I need to return a quick call,
我就在门那边 有事随时找我 but I will be right at the door if you need me.
你们可以小声交谈 You may talk. Quietly.
喂？ Hello?
嗯 我是塔莎·杰克逊 Yes, this is Tasha Jackson returning your call.
我的结果还没出来吗？ Okay, so my results aren't in?
出来了？ Oh, they are?
那可以就电话告诉我吗？ Well, why can't you just give them to me over the phone?
噢 我和我丈夫当然会去 Oh, of course my husband and I will be there
如果贝莉医生坚持要求的话 if Dr. Bailey insists.
抱歉来晚了 I apologize for the delay.
没事 It's all right.
杰克逊先生和杰克森太太 塔莎的结果出来了 Mr. and Mrs. Jackson,Tasha's results are in
但我想跟你们当面谈 but I wanted to speak with you personally
因为她的结果很.... 复杂 because her results are well, delicate in nature.
怎么了 医生？ What is it, Doctor?
我之前在想该怎么跟你们说 I thought about how to tell you this
但只有一种方式 but there's only one way to say it so,
那就是直说 I'm just gonna come out with it.
你战胜了一切 塔莎 You have defied the odds, Tasha.
你怀孕了 You're pregnant.
-天呐 -真的吗？ - Oh my God! - Are you serious?
天 Oh my God!
伯尼 Oh, Bernie.
真的吗？ Are you serious?
已经九周了 Nine weeks along.
宝宝 A baby.
哇哦 Wow.
但我们在你的乳房X光照片上发现了一个硬块 But a mass was found on your mammogram
-等等 -什么？ - Wait. - What?
不可能 我这几年都在照X光 Wait no, no, no. I've been getting my mammogram for years,
结果都很好 and my results have always been clean.
我知道 非常抱歉 I know, and I'm sorry,
不幸的是 这次不好 but unfortunately this result was not.
等等 Whoa hold on a second, wait.
我理解得没错的话 Just so I can understand you clearly,
你是说我老婆有乳腺癌吗？ are you saying my wife has breast cancer?
不是 我没这么说 No, I'm not saying that at all.
要做最后的诊断 还要做一个皮肤活检 A biopsy will have to be preformed to determine that.
我只是说塔莎的胸部检测出了一个硬块 What I'm saying is that Tasha has a mass,
你们都知道她身上携带有突变基因 and as you both already know she carries a mutated gene.
遗传了她妈的乳腺癌易感基因 The BRCA1 she inherited from her mother.
这种突变风险很高 This mutation causes a greater risk
容易引发癌症 of developing breast cancer.
好吧 那... Okay, but...
皮肤活检结果出来之后 but, she can get the biopsy back
如果查清楚这个硬块不致癌 and find out the mass isn't cancerous,
那她和宝宝都会没事 对吧？ and she and the baby will be fine, right?
当然 Yes, of course.
硬块也可以是良性的 The mass can be benign.
那如果不是呢？ And what if it isn't?
如果是恶性的 你的肿瘤医师 If it's malignant, then your oncologist will
会告诉你接下来该怎么做 talk to you about the next steps.
医生 你现在就可以跟我们说 No, no, Doc, you could just tell us right now.
你是医生 你多少知道接下来会发生什么 You're a doctor, you have an idea of what'll happen
求你了 Please.
对不起 我... I'm sorry I...
我们一直想要一个孩子 Listen, we've been wanting this baby for a long time.
是的 Yes.
我们已经承受了太多 所以你就告诉我们吧 Right, we've been through too much so just, just tell us
好吧 通常来讲 这样的情况 Okay normally, in a case such as this, with the pregnancy
如果在怀孕初期 硬块是恶性的 in it's early stages, if the mass is indeed malignant,
考虑到你是刚刚怀孕 depending on the stage that it's in,
那么你的医师会建议你 then your oncologist might suggest
终止妊娠 that you terminate the pregnancy
并且立即接受治疗 and receive treatment immediately.
终止妊娠？ Terminate the pregnancy?
天呐 伯尼 God. Bernie.
塔莎 Tasha.
如果非要在你和宝宝之间做选择 If it's between you and this baby...
那根本不用选 好吗 I mean, it's no... real choice in the matter, you know?
你逗我吗？ Are you serious?
我们还有别的选择 对吧？ Just, we have options. Right?
塔莎 我来给你预约皮肤活检 Tasha let me order the biopsy
在你心烦意乱之前不妨先看看结果 and let's look at the results before you get yourself upset.
考虑到你的情况 I mean, in your condition it is very important
保持冷静非常重要 that you remain calm.
天 我办不到 Oh God, I can't.
塔莎 宝贝 Tasha, baby.
我冷静不了 I can't!
谢谢您 Thank you.
塔莎 Tasha.
不准跟我讲话 Don't you speak to me.
等等 不要像教学生那样跟我讲话 Wait, don't use that teacher voice on me.
你怎么会说出在我和宝宝之间 How dare you say that if it's between me
不用选这种话 and the baby there's no other choice?
我的身体我做主 My body, my choice.
等等 你是我老婆 好吗？ Hey, wait a second, you're my wife, okay?
-我也有话语权 -不 你没有 伯尼 - I have a say in this. - No, you don't, Bernie.
我有 塔莎 我有话语权 好吗？ Yes, I do, Tasha! I do have a say! Okay?
为什么这种事会发生在我身上？ Why is this happening to me?
发生在我们身上？ Why is this happening to us?
听着 Listen.
什么 What?
我们不要在这里互相伤害了 Let's not do this to each other.
至少现在不要 Not right now.
也许活检的结果是良性的 The biopsy could come back benign
那一切就相安无事了 and everything will be okay.
好吗 All right?
-好的 -嗯 - Okay. - Okay.
-别哭了 -对不起 伯尼 - Come on. - I'm sorry, Bernie.
没事 别哭了 No, that's okay, come on.
会没事的 It's gonna be all right.
爸爸 Daddy.
结果是恶性的 It's malignant.
该死 Damn it.
我的宝贝 我的宝贝 我的宝贝 My baby, my baby, my baby.
做完皮肤活检之后 When I had that biopsy done,
我对自己说没事的 I just knew that everything was gonna be okay.
但肿瘤医师告诉我说 But the oncologist said that I have...
我有二级导管癌 I have invasive ductal carcinoma stage two.
这是恶性乳腺癌 It's an aggressive form of breast cancer.
我知道 你妈妈当时是四级 I know. It's what your mother had, stage four.
梅尔文 布伦达 你们能不能 Yeah so, Melvin, Brenda will you please
帮我给她讲讲道理 help me talk some sense into her?
求你们了 Please?
肿瘤医师说我们应该终止妊娠 The oncologist said that we should terminate the pregnancy
即时开始治疗 now so that she can start her treatment.
终止妊娠 Terminate the pregnancy?
恩 Yes.
这是我们的孩子 伯尼 This is our baby, Bernie.
我还要跟你说多少遍 How many times do I have to remind you of that?
这是我们的孩子 That's our baby.
塔莎 宝贝 这可是你的人生啊 Tasha honey, this is your life.
对 这是我的人生 我的 Yes. Yes. This is my life. Mine.
在座有谁明白这一点？ Who around this table understands that?1
明白什么？ What is there to understand?
啊？ Huh?
肿瘤医师说如果现在开始治疗的话 The oncologist said that her cancer's treatable
这个病还能治 塔莎 if we start now, Tasha.
你问过医生要是 Did you ask the doctor what would happen
在生产之后再开始治疗会怎么样吗？ if she's waits till after the pregnancy?
问了 如果等到生完孩子 Yeah, and if she waits until the baby is born,
癌症就会扩散 then the cancer could grow
那时候也许就来不及了 and it may be too late to do anything about it.
塔莎 你想怎么做？ Tasha, baby, what do you want to do?
我想把孩子生下来 I want to have our baby.
不管我在这世上还有多少时间 Look, whatever time I have left on this earth
我也想有个孩子一起过 I would rather spend it having a baby to love,
而不是把他打掉 than without one.
爸爸 这是个奇迹 是上帝给我的礼物 Daddy, this is a miracle. This baby is a gift from God.
你是哪点想不明白 伯尼 What part about that don't you understand, Bernie?
行吧 我不想在这儿继续这恼人的对话了 You know what, I'm not gonna sit here and listen to this.
所以呢 你要一走了之吗？ So what, you're just gonna walk away?
你就这么一走了之了吗？ You're just gonna walk away?
让他走吧 他要消化的太多了 Let him go. He has a lot to process.
相信我 我懂 Trust me, I know.
失去唯一深爱的女人 The thought about losing the only woman
那滋味可不好受 that you've ever loved... It's a lot to deal with.
所以呢？ So what?
你们要联手对付我了吗？ You two gonna gang up on me too?
是这样吗？ Is that it?
我们不会联合起来对付你 塔莎 We're not gonna gang up on you, Tasha,
但如果医生强烈要求你终止妊娠 but if your doctor is urging you to terminate the pregnancy,
你得乖乖听话 then you need to listen to him.
我知道这病的能耐 I seen what this disease can do first hand
宝贝 我一点也不希望它发生在你身上 and baby, I don't wish that on you.
嘿 过来 Hey, come here.
跟我们一起 Come over here with us.
我的女人们 My girls.
帕特丽夏 Patricia.
塔莎 赶紧去打911 就像我们平时练习那样 Tasha, call 911 like we practiced, come on.
塔莎 快去 Tasha, now!
帕特丽夏 Patricia.
我知道这病给她带来的痛苦 Even though I saw how much pain this disease caused her,
但想到你在没有她陪伴的情况下长大 I was equally hurt that you had to grow up
同样令我伤心 without her guidance.
塔莎 你想出来 Hey Tashy, you wanna come out
吃点好吃的吗？ and get something to eat?
我知道你肯定饿坏了 I know you must be hungry.
我不饿 I'm not hungry.
真的？ You sure?
塔莎 你什么都可以跟我说 You know, Tasha you can talk to me about anything.
就跟你和你妈妈一样 Just like your momma did.
毕竟我是她最好的朋友 I mean, I wasn't her best friend for nothing.
好吧 Okay.
只要你需要 我随时都在 I'm here if you need me.
嘿 塔莎 Hey, Tasha.
嘿 伯尼 Hey, Bernie.
你妈妈去了天堂 对吧 Your mommy's gone to Heaven, huh?
我的小狗闪电也去了天堂 那应该是个好地方 My dog Split went to heaven too, guess it's a good place.
教堂里的人们是这么说的 That's what they say in church.
还记得葬礼那天吗？ Remember the day of the funeral?
我怎么会忘 How could I forget? Yeah.
听说你妈翘辫子了 软脚虾 Heard your mom kicked the bucket, shrimp.
我把你从斗殴中拉出来 When I pulled you out of that fight...
塔莎 住手 Tasha, stop!
塔莎 我说了 住手 Tasha, I said stop!
当时我就明白了 我能为你做的也只有这么多 ...I knew right then and there, I could only do so much for you.
有时候人真的得想想 You really need to think about the possibility
孩子在没有你陪伴的情况下长大是什么样 of this child growing up without you.
别哭 爸爸送你回家 Now come on, Daddy's gonna take you home.
刚刚我们还不能生育孩子 I mean one minute we can't have any kids.
突然之前... 就... The next minute... You know?
太突然了 兄弟 It's all so much all of a sudden, man.
嗯 我懂 Yeah, I know.
我不能假装说我从没想要孩子 I mean, I can't pretend I never wanted children, you know?
嗯 Hmm.
但当我知道塔莎不能生之后 But when we found out Tasha couldn't have any,
我觉得没什么大不了 I was cool with that, you know.
我不会离开她 我爱她 I wasn't going anywhere. I love her.
嗯 我懂 Yeah, I get it.
我不想要这个孩子 托尼 I don't want this baby, Tony.
也许这不对 但这就是我的真实想法 It might not be right but, that's how I feel.
你会释然的 You'll come around.
我表示怀疑 I doubt it.
-她需要你 -不 - She needs you man. - Mm-mm.
兄弟 她不需要我 她已经自己打算好了 Bro, she don't need me. She got it all figured out.
她太固执了 She's so damn stubborn.
嗯 Yeah.
我像以前那样给她盖好了被子 I tucked her in just like I did when she was little.
她累坏了 She was spent.
想必也是 I'm sure.
真不敢相信 I can't believe this is happening.
这一切会发生在她身上 Not to her.
我能来杯茶吗？ Can I get a cup of tea?
怎么了？ What?
你生气了吗？ You mad at me?
不知道 你觉得呢？ I don't know, am I?
这是什么意思 What does... what's that --supposed to mean.
我的意思是 我什么时候才能让你满足 梅尔文 It means... When will I be enough for you, Melvin?
我不知道你在说什么 I don't know what the hell you talking about.
这么多年 All these years I've been here,
我感觉我就是个透明人 I feel like I'm invisible to you.
透明人？ Invisible?
你不就站在我面前吗 You're standing right in front of me.
你看见我了吗？ Do you see me?
我感觉我一直站在帕特丽夏的影子里 'Cause I feel like I'm standing in Patricia's shadow.
无论我做什么你都觉得我不够好 Nothing I do is ever good enough for you.
无论是照顾我最好的朋友 Not when I helped you take care
直到她离世 of my best friend until her death.
还是在赡养我儿子的同时 Not even when I helped you raise Tasha
帮你抚养塔莎 while I'm raising my own boys.
我都没有感受到被人感激 Not once have I ever felt appreciated.
我们结婚了 布伦达 这样还不够吗？ We're in a relationship Brenda, that's not enough for you?
不够 No, it's not.
那你想要我怎样 Then what do you want from me, huh?
谢谢你吗？ A thank you?
你爱我吗？ Do you love me?
就在刚刚我唯一的孩子走进这个家 My only child just walked in here
告诉我她患上了乳腺癌 and told me she has breast cancer
还可能为一个她可能没法抚养长大的孩子 and she's foregoing treatment
放弃治疗 for a child she may never raise.
我体内的每一丝爱 每一份支持 Every bit of love, every bit of support,
每一点力量 我拥有的一切 every bit of strength, everything I have in me
都用在了我的女儿身上 is going to my daughter.
你要么接受 不接受拉倒 You either accept that, or not.
我要睡了 I'm going to bed.
塔莎 宝贝 开门 Tasha baby, please open the door.
塔莎把自己关在了厕所 不肯出来 Tasha's in the bathroom, she won't come out.
我不知道该怎么做 只好打给你 I didn't know what to do so I called you.
没事的 她12岁了 It's fine. She's 12 years old.
如果她躲在厕所不出来只有一个原因 If she's not coming out of the bathroom it's for one reason.
她需要卫生巾 她就要成为一个女人了 Sanitary napkins. She's crossed over into womanhood.
我是怎么就没想到呢 How could I not know that?
别苛责自己 Don't beat yourself up about it.
塔莎宝贝 我是布伦达 Tasha honey, it's Brenda.
我能进来吗？ Can I come in?
我在厨房等你们 I'll be in the kitchen.
没事的 It'll be fine.
嗯 Yeah.
她是大姑娘了 She's growing up.
今天最好是让她待在家里 休学一天 Best to let her stay home from school today.
第一次经历月事 Experiencing that for the first time
很容易让人痛苦 can be a little traumatic.
谢谢你 布伦达 Thank you, Brenda.
别客气 Mm-hmm. No problem.
你知道吗 You know,
帕特丽夏走了之后我感觉 with Patricia gone I just feel as though
她错过了太多东西 there's so much she's missing out on
而我又无法弥补 that I can't give to her.
虽然我不是她亲生母亲 Well, I'm not her mother,
但我会力所能及地帮你们爷俩的 but I'm always here to help you with her.
我不想麻烦你 I don't want to burden you.
不麻烦 我可以帮助她 It's no burden. I can help her.
还有你 And you.
-不行 -不 你可以 - I can't. - Yes, you can.
梅尔文 Melvin.
你是有需求的男人 You're a man with needs.
我是一个有需求的女人 I'm a woman with the same needs.
我的需求满足得挺好的 My needs are taken care of just fine.
我懂了 Oh, I see.
你可以和别的女人在一起 但我不行 是吗? So, you can be with other women, just not me. Is that it?
布伦达 这对你我来说都不容易 Brenda, it's not easy for you and me.
你是她的闺蜜 You were her best friend.
4年了 It's been four years.
我知道 You think I don't know that?
她不在了 梅尔文 我站在这里 我爱你 She's gone Melvin, and I'm here, and I love you.
还有楼上的小公主 And that little girl upstairs,
-我爱她视如己出 -我知道 - I love her like she's my own.- I know that.
那为什么？ Then why?
我就是... 就是不行 好吗？ I just-- Look I just can't, okay?
不行不是原因 Can't is not a reason.
你为什么不能想想... Why don't you just consider the fact that--
我还爱着我的亡妻 可以吗？ Look, I'm still in love with my wife, okay?
我不想伤害你 布伦达 Look, I don't want to hurt you, Brenda.
那癌症一点点吞噬她生命的时候 I took care of her when that cancer
我照料着她 was just eating her away.
我竭尽所能想让她活下来 I did everything I could to keep her here.
因为塔莎需要她的妈妈 Because Tasha needed her mother.
我也照顾过她 I took care of her too.
和你一起 I was right there with you.
你觉得我可以就这样和她最好的朋友上床吗？ So you expect me to just make love to her best friend?
嗯 Yes.
你不明白 You just don't understand.
我不能这样背叛帕特丽夏 I can't betray Patricia like that.
她已经死了 没有背叛不背叛 You can't betray a dead woman.
无意冒犯 对不起 I didn't mean that. I'm sorry.
我知道她不在了 Look, I know she's dead, okay?
知道她回不来了 And she's not coming back.
你是个漂亮女人 谁娶了你都是他们的福气 And you're a beautiful woman. Any man would be lucky to have you.
但我不想坐在这里 But I'm not gonna sit here
装作想要跨越友情那一步 and pretend that I want any more from you than friendship.
我朋友够多了 I don't need anymore friends.
我不能再这样下去了 I can't do this anymore.
布伦达 别走 塔莎需要你 Brenda, don't leave. Tasha needs you.
要是你也需要我就好了 If only you needed me too.
嘿 Hey.
我今早要去做一个超声波检查 I have a sonogram appointment this morning.
你可以和我一起去吗？ You think you could make it?
恐怕不行 宝贝 Um, yeah, I don't think so babe. I don't think I can.
试一下不行吗？ Could you try?
我得工作 I gotta work.
好吧 谢谢你告诉我 再见 All right. Okay, thanks for telling me. Okay.
塔莎打来的 她说今早有个超声波检查 That was Tasha. She has a sonogram this morning.
怎么 还是不想和我讲话吗？ What? You still not talking to me?
说什么？ For what?
我没什么想说的 I don't have anything to say.
那就别说话 Then don't say anything.
我们就... 亲热就好 We just uh... make up.
你不觉得我们这个年纪还玩补偿性爱有点太老了吗？ Aren't we a little too old for make up sex?
不知道 不如事后你再告诉我 I don't know. Tell me when we're finished.
凝胶是温热的 The gel is warm.
好的 Okay.
噢 Oh.
好了 开始了 All right, here we go.
喏 There.
它看起来像一颗芸豆 It looks like a little kidney bean.
是的 这个孕期的宝宝就是这个样子 Yes, that's what it's supposed to look like at this gestation.
哇哦 Wow.
都还好吧 有心跳吗？ Well, is everything okay, is the heart beating?
心跳强劲有力 Heart beat is strong.
你大概怀孕11周了 You're about 11 weeks along.
杰克逊太太 你还好吧 Miss Jackson, are you okay?
要是我老公在这儿就好了 I wish my husband was here is all.
我会打一张图给他看的 We'll print a picture out for him.
没人想一个人来做第一次... No one wants to do the first... ya know,
超声波 你知道吧？ sonogram alone, you know?
嗯 我理解 Oh yeah, I understand.
我们错过了吗？ Did we miss it?
我的天 你们来了？ Oh my God, you're here?
噢 布伦达 老爸 Oh, Brenda and Daddy.
你又来了 Oh, here you go.
我们本该早点到的 但是... We would have been here earlier but um--
堵车 Traffic.
没错 - Yeah.
我们碰上堵车 - We were caught in traffic.
嗯 堵了个好车 我是说 堵了很久的车 Yeah, caught in traffic, good traffic-- I mean, big traffic.
嗯 Yeah.
好吧 Okay?
好了 把这东西用起来 让我看看宝宝 All right, let's fire this thing up so I can see this baby.
噢 当然 Oh, yeah, sure thing.
好极了 Oh, yeah.
看看 还没等宝宝来我就把他拍下来了! Look, I got the baby on film before it's even here!
我知道 现在可真小 I know. It's so tiny.
好了 不管了 Okay, here goes nothing.
你好 今天.... 呃... Hello there, um... well, today has been all in all, uh...
我的天 Oh my God.
我到底想说些什么？ What the hell am I trying to say?
哦 有了 Oh, I got it.
好了 你好小小人 不管你是谁 All right, um... Hey there little person, whoever you are.
我叫塔莎 塔莎·杰克逊 My name is Tasha, Tasha Jackson
然后...我刚满30岁... and um... I recently turned 30 and um...
见鬼 这东西根本没有在录 Damn it. This thing's not even recording.
好了好了 开始 Okay, okay here we go.
哈喽 小家伙 Hello, little one.
我是你的妈妈 塔莎 I am your mommy, Tasha,
现在 你还在我的肚子里 看见没？ and right now you are in my tummy, see?
呃 我现在在录这个视频 因为 很显然 Um, I am recording this because apparently
你的外公梅尔文说得对 your grandfather Melvin had it right all along.
重要的事件应该被录下来 Important things should be captured on film.
所以现在我在为你录这个视频 So here I am recording this just for you.
我已经怀上你11周了 So, I am 11 weeks pregnant with you
但我同时还患有乳腺癌 and I also have breast cancer.
像我妈一样 Just like my mom.
但我想让你知道 But I want you to know
不管发生了什么 我选择了你 that no matter what happens, I chose you.
你是被爱的 我会永远陪着你 You are loved, and I will always, always be here with you.
塔莎 Tasha.
这是你吵人的爸比 That's your loud daddy.
嗯？ Yeah?
吃早餐了 Breakfast.
这些是什么？ What's all this?
你什么意思 早餐啊 What do you mean, it's breakfast.
这个我知道 Well, I can see that, it's
但你的早餐一般就是谷物麦片 just your idea of breakfast is usually cereal.
嗯 这个 Yeah, well.
今天换花样了 Not today.
伯尼 不要这么做 Bernie, don't do this.
做啥？ Do what?
做这些没用的多余的事 Start doing all this extra unnecessary stuff.
只是顿早餐 塔莎 It's just breakfast, Tasha.
不 不是 这就像... No, it's not, it's um...
"我知道你快死了" "You know I think you're gonna die soon,
"所以让我来做些我一直以来该做的" so let me start doing this extra stuff to compensate
"来补偿你一下" for what I should have been doing all along."
这不公平 塔莎 That's not fair, Tasha.
好吗？我做早餐 是因为我想做 Okay? I made breakfast because I wanted to.
所以我们现在该讨论什么是公平的了吗？ So this is the part where we start talking about what's fair?
不 你现在不会想跟我讨论这个问题的 相信我 No, you don't want to have that conversation with me right now, trust me.
不 我想 我想继续这个谈话 Oh, yes I do. I do want to have this conversation.
行 我们来谈 All right, let's have the conversation.
你要怎么说服我或者任何人 How are you gonna convince me or anybody else
用你的生命换取这个孩子的生命 that you're being fair to yourself and your husband
对你自己以及你的老公来说是公平的？ by keeping this baby instead of saving your own life?
嗯？给我解释下 这怎么会公平？我听着 Hmm? Explain to me how that's fair. I'm listening.
伯尼 现在不像25年前我妈患癌的时候 Bernie, this is not 25 years ago when my mother had cancer.
现在有新的治疗办法和新药... There are new treatments and medicines...
你现在表现得像打算筹备我的葬礼了 You are acting as if you're about to plan my funeral.
我可能不得不这么做 I might have to.
你懂吗 塔莎？我有可能不得不这么做 Do you understand that, Tasha? I just might have to.
天 你以为我就不害怕吗？ God, you don't think that I'm afraid of that?
我也害怕 天知道我多想活下去 I am, God knows I wanna live.
那就做你该做的事 行吗？ Then do what needs to be done, okay?
天 God.
你真他妈的固执 还天真 You are so damn stubborn and naive.
如果我失去你了怎么办 嗯？ And what if I lose you, huh?
嗯？接下来呢？ Hmm? What then?
我该怎么做？ What do I do?
我爱了你一辈子 塔莎 I've loved you my entire life, Tasha.
噢 伯尼 我很抱歉 Oh Bernie, I am so sorry.
我真的很抱歉 I am so-- I am so sorry.
好了 嗯... Ok, um...
你准备好出发了吗？ Look, you ready to go?
我的天 我的脚疼死了 Oh my God, my feet are killing me.
你白天在校园里走了一天 You're walking around campus all day
晚上还来这儿工作 and then you come here work at night,
你的脚能不疼吗 I bet your feet do hurt.
可别指望我给你按脚啥的 Don't expect no foot rub or nothing, though.
谢谢你大老远过来接我 Thanks for coming all this way to pick me up.
没什么大不了的 这就是最好的朋友的用场 不是吗？ It aint nothing, you know, that's what best friends are for, right?
没错 Yes.
为什么要我来接你？ Why am I picking you up?
因为我叫你来的 Because I asked you to.
我知道 你老爸不能来接你吗？ I know that, your dad couldn't pick you up?
-我想给他个惊喜 -噢 - I'm trying to surprise him. - Aww.
这可真贴心 Ain't that sweet.
你为啥要现在回家？ Why are you coming home now?
也不是过节休息啥的 It's not a holiday or a break or anything.
明天是我妈的忌日 Tomorrow's the anniversary of Mom's death.
我不想留他一个人在家 你懂吗？ I don't like leaving him home alone you know?
嗯 我赌这会是个惊喜 Yeah, I bet that. That's what's up.
不过你可别想赖掉我的汽油费 Don't act like you ain't gonna put no money in my gas tank, though.
怎么了 你又破产了？ So what, you broke again?
啥？ What?
你怕是在说笑 我才没破产 Girl, you got jokes. Nah, I ain't broke.
我在做点小生意 I got a little something happening.
做啥？ Doing what?
别这么看着我 Don't look at me like that.
我可没做什么违法的事 塔莎 I ain't doing nothing illegal, Tasha.
说真的 我真没 Hey yo, for real, I'm not.
我找到了一份地毯公司的工作 I got a job at this carpet company.
伯尼 你连吸尘器都不会用 Bernie, you the dude that can barely vacuum.
我想这是我们的共同点 Well, I guess that's something we got in common then.
好吧 那还挺不错的 Well, good for you then.
如果你允许 我还能照顾好你 Take care of you too, if you let me.
好了 伯尼 这就是我说的问题 Okay, you see Bernie that's what I'm talking about.
你太爱玩了 You play too much.
布伦达 嘿 好久不见 Brenda, hey. It's been a while.
梅尔文 嗨 Melvin, hi.
嗯... 至少五年没见了 Yeah, what five years at least.
准确来说是6年 Six years to be exact.
你在这儿做什么？ What are you doing here?
你知道 像这种小市场 Well, you know a little market like this
是买牛排的最好去处 is the best place to get a good steak.
这是镇里最好的市场 It's the best market in town.
我在为烤鸡挑选调料 I was just picking up my seasonings for my jerk chicken.
阿 你做的烤鸡 嗯 Ah, your jerk chicken, yeah.
我记得那味道 I remember that.
塔莎怎么样？ So, how's Tasha?
-她现在上大学了 -哇偶 - She's in college now. - Wow.
事实上我希望她回家 Yeah, actually I was hoping she'd come home
待几天 你也知道... in a few days, for you know...
呃 但是她现在忙着学习 Uh, but she's busy studying.
明天是帕特丽夏的忌日 Tomorrow's the anniversary of Patricia's passing.
嗯 你现在怎么样 结婚了吗？ Yeah. What's going on with you? You married?
还是未婚？如何？ You not married? What?
不不不 我已经经历过那事了 No, no, no. Been there done that.
嗯 我记得你离婚的时候很艰难 Yeah, I remember you having a hard time with your divorce.
不不 并没有 他是个爱撒谎 控制欲强 Oh, no not really. He was a lying, manipulative,
自恋 软弱的男人 很容易让人放下 narcissistic, weak example of a man. Easy to walk away from.
见鬼 告诉我你的真实感受 Damn, tell me how you really feel.
听着 很高兴见到你 梅尔文 Well, listen, it was good to see you Melvin.
替我给塔莎打个招呼 告诉她我想念她 Give Tasha my love and tell her I miss her.
那我呢？你有一点想念我吗？ What about me? I mean, do you miss me even a little?
你这么多年来一直在我们的生活中 You were such a constant in our lives for years,
那些没有你的日子里 我真的很后悔 and these past years without you, I really regret it.
如果能重来一次 我会... 呃那不重要 If I could go back I would-- Well it's not important.
我真的很想念你 布伦达 I really miss you, Brenda.
我不是帕特丽夏 梅尔文 I'm not Patricia, Melvin.
我知道 I know that.
我从未想过要取代她 I was never trying to take her place.
我只是想尽我所能的去帮助你们 I was just trying to be there in whatever capacity I could.
我现在明白了 我当时只是觉得理所当然 很抱歉 I realize that, and I took you for granted and I'm sorry.
嗯 我确实很想你 Yes, I do miss you.
那 你今晚有什么安排？ Well, what are you doing tonight?
你忙吗？ Are you busy?
你想一起吃晚餐吗？ Would you like to have dinner?
我可是烧得一手好牛排 Remember, I cook a mean steak.
谢谢你 但是... 晚餐就算了 Thank you, but um... I'm gonna pass on dinner.
照顾好自己 好吗？ You take care of yourself, okay?
梅尔文 Melvin.
我喜欢3分熟的牛排 I like my steaks rare.
好的 Okay.
配卡百内？ Cabernet?
老爸 Daddy!
老爸 我回来了 Daddy, I'm home!
老爸 Daddy!
布伦达？ Brenda?
噢 Oh!
我的天 我简直不敢相信 Oh my God, I can't believe this.
还是在我妈的忌日？ And on the anniversary of my mother's death?
简直太不敬了 That is totally disrespectful.
严格来说 并不是忌日当天 Well, technically it's not on the anniversary.
毕竟明天才是忌日 我是说... That's tomorrow, but I mean--
在我看来 你爸和布伦达也是情理之中 To me, your dad and Brenda makes sense, you know?
你讲真吗 伯尼？ Really, Bernie?
她是我妈最好的朋友 She was my mother's best friend.
我知道 但我的意思是... Yeah I know, but I mean...
你什么意思？什么意思？ What do you mean? What do you mean?
听着 这事又不是他背着你妈出轨 你懂吗？ Look, it's not like he's cheating on your moms, you know?
至于布伦达 我是说 换我我也会上手 And Brenda, I mean, I'm just saying-- I'd hit it.
嗷 嘿拜托 别打我 Ow, hey come on stop hitting on me.
不 你说这些蠢话就该打 No, not when you say dumb crap like that.
拜托 塔莎 你认真的吗？ Come on Tasha, are you serious?
怎么 你觉得你爸剩下半辈子都不找新的了吗？ What, you think your dad's gonna go the rest of his life without gettin' some?
拜托 你需要看开点 Come on man, you need to chill out.
我不需要做任何事 I don't need to do anything,
现在立马回学校 but go back to school right now.
不不 现在？ No. no. Right now?
-对 -不行 - Yes. - No, no.
我们才不要回去 我们刚到这儿 We're not going back right now, we just got here.
我才不会掉头又大老远给你捎回去 I'm not turning around and taking you all the way back.
好吧 Fine.
那我今晚能待在你家吗？ Can I spend the night at your house then?
我今晚真的不想回家 I really don't want to got home tonight.
你弄好了吗？ Are you finished yet?
伯尼 我让你别看了 Bernie, I told you not to look.
我没有在看 我只是累了 I'm not looking, all right? I'm just tired.
我开了四小时去接你 You know, it took me four hours to come get you
又开了四小时回来 and four hours to come back.
好了 我弄好了 Okay, I'm done.
谢谢你 Thank you.
伯尼 你这是在干嘛？ Bernie, what are you doing?
我才不要穿衣服睡呢 I'm not sleeping in my clothes.
噢 天 Oh, man.
不不不 不行 你睡在地板上 No, no, no, no, no, you sleep on the floor
我睡在床上 and I'm gonna sleep in the bed.
塔莎 我才不会睡在地板上 好吗？ Tasha, I am not sleeping on the floor okay?
我累了 我只想睡在自己的床上 I'm tired. I just wanna get in my own bed.
没人会碰你的 姐姐 让让 Ain't nobody gonna touch you girl, move.
那要是你妈进来了怎么办？ But, what if your mom comes in?
她不会进来的 她现在上夜班 She's not coming in here. She works the night shift now.
伯尼？ Bernie?
啊？ Huh?
你交往过多少个女孩子？ How many girls have you been with?
啥？ What?
塔莎 你怕是疯了 快睡觉吧 Tasha, you crazy girl, go to bed.
你有爱过她们中任何一个吗？ Did you love any of them?
没有 No.
所以你从没爱过任何人？ So, you've never been in love?
这个 有啊 Well, yeah.
是谁？ With who?
你啊 With you.
我？ Me?
你才不可能爱上我 我是你最好的朋友 You can't be in love with me. I'm your best friend.
这样理由就更充分了 不是吗？ That's more the reason, right?
那跟我做爱吧 Make love to me, then.
啥子？ What?
不要 Nah.
你说"不要"什么意思？ What do you mean, "nah"?
不 No.
咋了 我有什么问题吗？ What, is there something wrong with me?
不 不是你不好 我只是... No, there's nothing wrong with you I'm just...
行 那是为什么？ Okay, well then why not?
我不会在娶你之前跟你做爱 好吗？ I'm not making love to you until I marry you, okay?
娶我？ Marry me?
伯尼 你有时候是真的蠢 我的天 Bernie you are so stupid sometimes. Oh my gosh.
娶我 Marry me.
不 我不蠢 塔莎 No, I'm not stupid, Tasha.
我总有一天会娶到你的 I'm gonna marry you one day.
我说真的 I'm serious.
但是现在 我要睡觉了 好吗？ But, for right now I'm gonna get some sleep. All right?
晚安 Goodnight.
请过来坐下 Come on in and take a seat.
我们刚刚开始 We're just getting started.
好的 谢谢你 Okay. Thank you.
我知道大家都经历了很多情绪波动 I know we are all going through a lot of emotion right now.
从恐惧到自怜 再到 Ranging from fear to self pity to, well,
觉得自己不像个女人 feeling less than a woman.
但你们的精力不应该放在这些地方 But your focus should not be on those things.
你们应该把精力花在分享经验 Your focus should be sharing your information
分享资源来帮助他人上面 and your resources to help one another.
黑人女性比白人女性 Black women are more likely to be diagnosed with breast cancer, and
更容易患乳腺癌以及其他重大疾病 have more aggressive forms of the disease than white women.
你们每个人都有自己的烦恼 Each of you have your own set of unique circumstances,
但我们面对的是一种如果控制和治疗得当 but we are dealing with a disease that can be cured
便可治愈的疾病 if monitored and treated properly.
我们需要给予我们的乳腺足够的重视 We need to give our breasts the attention they deserve.
有人想要分享的吗？ So, does anyone want to share?
有人吗？ Anybody?
嗯好 丹妮丝 Oh yeah, Denise.
我刚做了30天的化疗 差不多做完了 Well, I just had day 30 of my chemo, I'm almost done.
我知道 这可真棒 I know, what a wonderful thing.
我今天感觉很棒 And I feel good today.
我很强大 I'm strong.
我知道我能打败这东西 I know I can beat this thing.
你可真棒 丹妮丝 How wonderful for you, Denise,
但我们中的有些人剩下的时间可不多了 but some of us don't have enough time left to think about next year.
让我帮你回忆回忆 Let me just remind you
我们上周可刚参加了贾思明的葬礼 that we were just at Jasmine's funeral last weekend.
她之前就和我们一起坐在这里 现在她已经不在了 I mean, she was just sitting here with us, now she's gone.
我没有忘记贾思明 I haven't forgotten about Jasmine.
嗯 不过我们中有些人可没什么希望了 Yeah, well, some of us are barely hanging on to hope.
但你就那么喜欢在你的社交媒体上放那些照片 But y'all wanna post your little pictures on social media
你的光头 你的微笑 of your bald heads and your smiles,
好像在说这病并不会害死人 like this isn't killing women.
她们这么做是为了激励其他人 Women do that to encourage one another;
让其他人知道她们可以战胜它 to let each other know they can get through this.
我很愤怒 I'm angry.
我很受伤 I'm hurt.
我恨... And I hate...
这事发生在我身上 that this is happening to me.
我的癌症已经晚期了 My cancer is terminal.
我还有孩子啊 我的上帝 I have kids for God's sake.
没有我他们该怎么办啊？ What are they gonna do without me?
你告诉我 Tell me that?
听着 我知道你很愤怒 Look, I know that you are so angry--
你他妈说对了 我就是很愤怒 You're damn right I am.
我想活 I wanna live!
噢 天 我们都想 Oh, God, we all want that.
抱歉 你刚刚说什么？ I'm sorry, excuse me? What did you say?
想谈谈的话 请告诉我你的名字 You wanna talk? Tell me your name.
我是塔莎·杰克逊 I'm Tasha Jackson and
我很赞同我们都想活下去的事实 I was simply agreeing with the fact that we all want to live.
好消息是 我被告知我怀上了我的第一个孩子 Well, the great news is that I just found out that I'm pregnant with my first child.
我一辈子都在祈祷有一个宝宝 A baby that I have wanted and prayed for my entire life.
这个宝宝 从医学角度来说 我从没想过能怀上 A baby that, clinically speaking, I was never supposed to be able to conceive
因为我之前是不孕的 because I'm infertile. I was.
而另一方面 和你们一样 On the flip side is the reason we are all here.
我也被确诊为乳腺癌 I too have been diagnosed with breast cancer.
我的医生建议我终止妊娠 My doctor has advised that I terminate my pregnancy
以便立马接受治疗 in order to begin treatments immediately.
但是牺牲我宝宝的生命来换取我的生命 But sacrificing my child's life in order
是我决不会做的选择 to save mine is a decision that I simply cannot make.
领养一个啊 Adopt a baby.
终止妊娠 救自己的小命 Terminate your pregnancy and save your life.
接受一个已经治不好的患者的建议吧 Take it from someone who isn't gonna beat this thing.
沙琳 拜托 Charlene, please.
你能告诉我 为什么 Can you tell me, why is it so important
你要冒着生命危险保住这个宝宝吗？ that you would risk your own life for this baby?
你有孩子吗？ Do you have children?
嗯 我有三个孩子 Yes, I have three.
你愿意冒生命危险去保护他们吗？ Would you risk your life in order to protect them?
你愿意为他们牺牲自己吗？ Would you die to save them?
我当然愿意 Of course I would.
即使我的孩子还只在我的肚子里 Even though my child is still inside of me,
我仍有这种冲动 I feel that exact same way.
好了 女士们 我们下周见 Okay ladies, I'll see you next week.
呃 塔莎 Uh, Tasha.
这是洛佩斯医生的名片 This is Dr. Lopez's card.
我知道你觉得你是唯一一个 I know you think you're the only woman
患癌且怀着孕的女人 但你不是 who has cancer while pregnant, but you're not.
去见见他 Go see him.
有人告诉我你能帮助我 洛佩斯医生 I was told that you could help me Dr. Lopez.
一定还有其他的选择 There has to be another option.
现在 我已经接收到你的所有医疗记录 Now, I have received all of your medical records
它们已经传到我办公室了 that were transferred to my office,
我不能说你的肿瘤医生 and I cannot say that terminating your pregnancy
让你在这个时候终止妊娠 是错误的建议 at this juncture was the wrong advice from your oncologist.
事实上 如果患有癌症 In fact, it's normal practice to suggest termination
正常的做法是建议在怀孕的前三个月终止妊娠 in the first trimester when there's cancer present.
你需要接受治疗 杰克逊太太 需要立马开始 You need treatment Mrs. Jackson, you need it now.
你的乳腺癌病症很强势 You have an aggressive form of breast cancer.
怀孕期间身体产生的激素 Hormones that your body's producing during your pregnancy
只会促进肿瘤生长并可能扩散 will only cause the tumor to grow and possibly spread.
你等不起 You cannot afford to wait.
我承担不起的是打掉我的宝宝 What I can't afford is to abort my baby.
在你接受治疗期间 Then I will do everything in my power
我会尽我所能保证宝宝的安全 to keep your baby safe while you receive treatment.
你会吗？ You will?
我会 I will.
但这将是条漫漫长途 But this will be a long hard road,
绝非易事 nothing about this will be easy.
我们要怎么做？ What do we need to do?
第一步是切除左乳房 Well, the first step is a mastectomy of the left breast
并立即进行部分重建 with a partial reconstruction, immediately.
我理解你的担心 I understand your concerns.
不管有没有怀孕 手术都是有风险的 Surgery is always a risk, pregnant or not.
手术离子宫越近 And the closer the surgery is to the uterus,
自然流产的风险就越大 we run the risk of a spontaneous abortion.
然而 我确信我们可以进行手术 However, I feel certain that we can preform the surgery
并确保孩子的安全 and keep the baby safe.
所以就这样吗？ So that's it?
现在就进行手术 在怀孕期间 We do the surgery now, while I'm pregnant,
生产后进行化疗？ and the chemo after?
你将在怀孕期间接受化疗 杰克逊太太 You will be receiving chemo during your pregnancy Mrs. Jackson.
什么？ What?
这怎么可能？ How on earth is that possible?
洛佩斯医生 我亲眼见过化疗对我母亲的影响 Dr. Lopez, I saw first hand what that chemo did to my mother
这几乎抽走了她的生命 and it sucked the life out of her.
我怎么能在怀孕期间经历这种事情呢? How could I go through something like that
我的孩子怎么能活下来? while I'm pregnant? How could my baby survive that?
虽然有某些类型的化疗会伤害婴儿 While there are certain types of chemo that would harm
但也有其他类型的无害的化疗 the baby, there are other types that will be harmless,
每三周进行一次 持续六个月 spread out over a period of every three weeks for six months,
我会和你的产科医生保持联系 and I will connect with your obstetrician.
我们会密切监视你和孩子的情况 We will monitor both you and the baby very closely.
抱歉 但我现在要消化的事情太多了 I'm sorry, but this is a lot to process.
我必须告诉你 I must tell you that while I am certain
虽然我肯定我们能保证孩子的安全 that we can keep the baby safe,
但我不能确定你的癌症会如何继续发展 I cannot be certain of how the cancer will react.
所以你要说的是 So what you're telling me is that
即使我经历了这一切 也有可能不会痊愈? I could go through all of this and still won't be cured?
是的 Yes.
事实是 我们可以给你这种治疗 The reality is we can give you this treatment
但它可能不会奏效 and it will not work.
作为医生 我们无法忽略 Even as doctors we cannot ignore the possibility
你的丈夫可能要独自抚养这个孩子的可能性 that your husband would raise this child, your child, alone.
选择权在你 杰克逊太太 The choice is yours, Mrs. Jackson.
但我保证我会陪你走过每个阶段 But I promise to be with you every step of the way.
我注意到你也结婚了 I see that you're married too.
如果坐在这里的是你妻子 What would you tell your wife
你会怎么说? if she were the one that was sitting here?
我会告诉她留住宝宝 I'd tell her to keep that baby
并且现在就开始接受治疗 and to start her treatment now.
这是...这是大厅的 This is the... This is the lobby.
好了 这个肯定是铺楼梯的 All right, this must be upstairs.
没错 Yeah.
希望他们在这儿有空调 I hope they got the AC up there.
是的 热死我了 I know, this heat is killing me.
确实啊 You ain't lying.
剩下的这个是铺在... And this is the extra for...
我甚至不知道是用在哪儿的 I don't even know what this is for.
我们还有空间再装一个 We got room for the other one.
嘿 Hey.
我得和你谈谈 I need to talk to you.
嘿 托尼 Hey, Tony.
嘿 塔莎 Hey, Tasha.
伯尼说你怀孕了 恭喜 Bernie told me about the baby, congratulations.
谢谢 Thanks.
咋了？ What?
介意让我们单独聊聊吗？ You mind giving us a minute?
我去里面 I'll be inside.
很高兴见到你 塔莎 Good seeing you, Tasha.
拜 Bye.
你有什么要告诉我的 不能... What do you gotta tell me that couldn't be--
不能打电话说 塔莎？ couldn't be said on the phone Tasha?
好了 首先你要改改你的态度 All right, first you need to get rid of your little attitude.
我在工作宝贝 好吗？ I'm working babe, okay?
什么事？ What is it?
今天早上我去看了一位新的肿瘤医生 I went to see a new oncologist this morning
想听听他的意见 to get a second opinion.
所以你撇下我自己去看了医生？ So, you went to the doctor without me?
没错 Yes.
你连我的超声波检查都没去 I mean, it's not like you were there
所以你想表达什么？ for my sonogram appointment, so what's your point?
宝贝 你这是在找架吵 好吗？ Babe, you're really pushing it, all right?
直接告诉我有什么事 Just tell me what happened.
他说我可以留住宝宝 He said that I can keep the baby
同时从现在开始进行癌症治疗 and begin treatment for the cancer right now.
他可以保住我们的宝宝 That he could keep our baby safe.
他是这么说的？ He said that?
没错 Yeah.
但是除了化疗之外 我还得做个手术 But in addition to the chemo, I also have to have a surgery.
什么手术？ What kind of surgery?
乳房切除 A mastectomy.
我得立马切除左胸 That I have to have my left breast removed immediately.
伯尼 重点是 我们能保住我们的孩子 But Bernie, the point is, we can keep our baby.
没错 没错 Yeah, yeah.
我们就这么做 That's exactly what we're gonna do.
我的天 我一直希望你能这么说 Oh God, I was hoping you would say that.
我要宣布的大新闻是…我和我丈夫将迎来一个宝宝 My big announcement is... my husband and I are having a baby.
现在 因为我需要足够的休息 Now, because I will need plenty of rest,
今天之后我就要离开了 I am going on leave after today,
你们将由新的老师代课 and you all are getting a substitute teacher.
我知道 我会想念你们每一个 I know, I will miss each and every one of you
非常非常想 very, very much.
奥布里 请说？ Yes, Aubrey?
但是你的肚子不大啊 But your tummy isn't big.
这是因为宝宝还在成长 That's because the baby is still growing.
K·J 请说 KJ.
这个宝宝是怎么进到你的胃里面的 How did the baby get in your stomach?
我们都知道宝宝不是被送子鸟 We all know the stork doesn't drop off
送到医院里的 the baby at the hospital.
嗯哼 Mm-hmm.
好了 让我们换一个话题 好吗？ Okay, let's change the subject, shall we?
请把你们的科学读物翻到第11面 If you all could open up your science readers to page 11,
不是那种科学 and not that kind of science.
好了 哺乳动物 我们来讨论哺乳动物 Okay mammals, that's what we're gonna talk about, mammals.
伯尼 亲爱的 过来 过来坐 Bernie honey, come on, come on and sit down.
你得往好处想 You gotta think positive.
我相信塔莎和孩子 I'm sure Tasha and the baby
会顺利经过手术 没事的 are gonna get through the surgery just fine.
如果他们有事呢？ And what if they don't?
如果塔莎醒来 You know, cause if Tasha wakes up,
发现宝宝有任何闪失 and finds out anything happened to that baby.
她永远不会原谅自己和我 She'll never forgive herself, or me.
这不是你的错 None of this is your fault.
这就是我的错 梅尔文 It is my fault, Melvin.
我应该做点什么的 我也不知道 I should have done something else, I don't know.
母子平安 Mom and baby are fine.
杰克逊太太做的很棒 Mrs. Jackson did great.
我们顺利切除了她的乳房和肿瘤 We were able to get her left breast and the tumor.
谢谢你 医生 Thank you, Doc.
谢谢你 Thank you.
不客气 Your welcome.
嘿 你们马上就能见到她了 Hey, you'll be able to see her soon.
好 Okay.
吃吧 There you go.
是你给我的食谱 现在你就得吃这些 You showed me this recipe, now you're gonna eat this thing.
好了好了 宝贝 Ok, ok sweetie.
拜托 别涂太重 布伦达 Come on not too much, Brenda.
听着 Listen.
我最拿手的就是化妆 If there's one thing I know how to do it's beat a face.
好 Yeah.
好了 你瞧 All right, here ya go.
噢 Oh.
你喜欢吗？ Do you like it?
噢 我看起来像妈妈 Oh, I look just like Mama.
没错 你确实像她 Yeah, ya do.
布伦达 我好想她 Brenda, I miss her so much.
我也是 她会为你骄傲的 Me too, but she would be so proud of you.
她一定很开心有这个宝宝 And so happy about that grandbaby.
我知道 I know.
布伦达 我知道最开始的两年 Brenda, I know for the first two years
我很生气你和老爸的事 I was very upset about you and Daddy.
噢 那都是陈年往事了 姑娘 Oh, listen that's water under the bridge girl.
我知道我那个时候很年轻 不理解你们 I know that I was young, and I just didn't understand.
我想让你知道 我很感激 But, I want you to know how beyond grateful
他能拥有你 I am that he has you.
虽然他有时候有点复杂... And even though he may be a little complicated at times...
我知道他有多爱你 ...know how much he loves you. Well,
我敢肯定的是我爱他 I can certainly say I love him.
现在 我们来换衣服吧 Now, let's get that dress on.
我们有很多礼物要送你呢 We are going to shower you with gifts.
是个女孩！
嗷呜 Aw.
太可爱了 That is so adorable.
看看这性感的小短裤 Look at these booty shorts.
性感小宝宝 拜托 Baby booty-- Come on man.
看看这个 这个小... 这是谁送的？ Look at this! The little-- Who did this one?
我的天 那可真漂亮 Oh my God, that is so beautiful.
噢 真珍贵 这可真贴心不是吗 卡罗尔？ Oh. Precious. Isn't that sweet, Carol?
太珍贵了 It's so precious.
噢 我们好些年不用买衣服了 Oh, we're not gonna have to buy clothes for years.
非常感谢你们 Thank you so much.
一个尿布包 A diaper bag.
你用得上它的 You can use that.
看看我现在能不能背上 Oh, let's see if I can put it on now.
噢 看看那个 太棒了 Oh, look at that. That is so great.
真好 Nice.
噢 快起来啊 你什么毛病？ Oh, get up off the floor. What is wrong with you?
你能从地板上起来吗？真是疯了 Would you get up off the floor? You are out of your mind.
快起来 拜托？ Get up off the floor, would you?
你挡道了 You are in the way.
老爸录下了每一刻 哦 又来了 Daddy gets every shot-- Oh, here we go again.
又来了 梅尔文 Here we are again bro. Melvin.
好了 看 Here we go. Look.
今天 是我怀孕第33周 Today, I am 33 weeks pregnant,
我们还举办了你的婴儿派对 and we also had your baby shower.
最重大的消息是 The biggest news, is that you are gonna be here
你再过几周就要来了 in about, oh just a few short weeks.
噢 亲爱的 医生们将要进行 Oh honey, see the doctor's gonna perform
剖腹产 what they call a C-section.
他们会割开妈妈的肚子接你出来 And that means he's gonna cut you outta mommy's tummy.
我知道这可能听起来很恶心 Now, I know that may sound gross
可能你还不懂它的意思 and it may be too much information,
但重点是 你很快就会平安出生了 but the point is that you are going to be here soon and safe.
继续坚持下去姑娘 你真强大 Keep on doing what you're doing girl, you are so strong.
答应我你会一直保持下去 And promise me that you're always gonna be that way.
噢 Oof!
我的天 该去厕所了 My goodness, time for a potty break.
妈咪的膀胱上有个三磅重的帕特丽夏 Mommy can't keep going like this
妈咪憋不住了 with a three pound Patricia on her bladder.
好了 All right.
我要怎么从椅子上起来？ How do I get out of this chair?
好了 好了 Okay, here goes.
我的天 Oh my God.
伯尼？我的羊水破了 Bernie? I think my water just broke!
宝宝生下来了 The baby's here.
母子平安 She and Tasha are doing just fine.
恭喜你了 爸比 Congratulations, Daddy.
谢谢 我的天 Ah, thank you. Oh, my God.
她 呃.. 她有点小 不过他们说她很好 She's uh... She's a little small, but they say she's doing good.
太棒了 Amazing.
-是啊 -我的宝贝女儿怎么样？ - Yeah. - And how's my baby girl?
她简直像个冠军 梅尔文 她是个冠军 She was a champ bro. Melvin, she was a champ.
噢 那才是我的宝贝 Oh, that's my baby.
谢天谢地 谢天谢地 Thank God. Thank God.
不想相信 我当爸爸了 I cannot believe this. I'm a papa.
没错 你是 Yes, you are.
还有 呃... 你现在是外公了 And uh... you're a proud grandpapa.
嗯 好吧 我想是的 Yeah, uh, okay. I guess I am.
恭喜 Congratulations.
宝贝 你做的太棒了 Baby, you did so good.
没错 我们刚在新生儿重症监护病区看了宝宝 Oh yes, we just saw the baby in NICU.
老爸 你能别拍了吗 我看起来糟透了 Daddy, could you stop? I look a mess.
你在说什么？ What you talking about?
你看起来棒极了 鉴于你这种情况 You look great, I mean considering.
塔莎当妈妈了 你做到了 Tasha's a mommy. You did it.
我做到了 不是吗？ I did, didn't I?
没错 你做到了 宝贝 Yes, you did, baby.
她很好很健康 She's healthy and wonderful.
没错 Yeah, she is.
咚咚 Knock knock.
噢 洛佩斯医生 Oh, Dr. Lopez.
你的产科医生打到我办公室 Your OB called my office
告诉我你昨晚生了 and let me know you delivered the baby last night
一切都很顺利 and everything went well.
谢谢你 Thank you.
没必要说谢 我很高兴她平安出生了 No thanks needed. I'm just glad she arrived safely.
是啊 Yes.
比我们期望中的要早一点点 A little earlier than we would have liked.
早一点点 A little early.
塔莎怎么样呢？ What about Tasha?
她还有两次化疗 Well, she has two more chemo sessions.
之后我们会做核磁共振检查 看她的癌细胞是否清除完毕 And then we'll get the MRI, see if she's cleared.
我们现在能不谈这个 Could we not talk about that right now
专注点庆祝嘛？ and focus on celebrating?
你先庆祝 咱们之后再见面 Well, you do that and I will see you later.
大家好好保重 Everybody take care. Huh?
-谢谢你 -谢谢你 - Thank you. - Thank you.
好了 我不知道你们怎么想的 Well, I don't know about ya'll,
但我等不及要把宝宝接回家了 but I can't wait to get that baby home.
听着 你们不用操心任何事 Now listen, you don't have to worry about a thing.
我会过来 我来睡沙发 I'm gonna come over. I'm gonna sleep on the couch.
我来做吃的 我来换尿布 I'm gonna fix the formula. I'm gonna change the diapers.
我负责半夜里起来带孩子 I'm gonna get up in the middle of the night with the baby.
我知道伯尼对照顾宝宝这事 I know Bernie don't know nothing
一窍不通 about taking care of no baby.
我正祈祷你能这么说 I was praying you would say that.
我真不知道没有你我们该怎么办 布伦达 I don't know what we would do without you, Brenda.
我觉得伯尼不知道怎么换尿布 I don't think Bernie knows how to change a diaper.
我也觉得 I don't think so either.
两个月后
看看谁来了 Look who's here.
噢 亲爱的 Oh, honey.
我知道 我知道 I know, I know.
我的天 看看这小姑娘 Oh my God, would you look at that girl?
看看这个大宝宝 Look at this big old baby.
噢 Oh.
-嘿 小姑娘 -噢 - Hey, little mama. - Oh.
-过来这儿 -她真是小宝贝 - Come here. - How precious is she?
过来 你在笑什么呢？ Come here, what you smiling at?
-嗨 -嗯？你在笑啥？ - Hi. - Huh, what you smiling at?
来吧 Come on.
我知道我知道 - I know, I know, I know.
-没事的 -来妈妈身边 - It's okay. - Come to Mama.
没事的 It's okay.
帕特丽夏 没事的 Patricia, it's fine.
没事的 宝贝 It's all right, baby.
别哭 亲爱的 Don't cry, honey.
来了 Here you go.
没事的 It's okay.
-好了 -好了 - Here you go. - There you go.
这就是这小姑娘想要的 That's what that girl wanted.
干得好 爸比 Good job, Daddy.
妈咪等不及起身 And Mommy can't wait to get up from here
亲自照顾你了 and take care of you herself.
妈咪得慢慢来 Mommy needs to give it some time.
我知道 I know.
好吗 别做过头 All right, don't over do it.
你刚做完最后一次化疗 You just finished your last chemo session,
你还得留着力气 and you need your energy
庆祝这个小家伙回家呢 to celebrate this little lady coming home.
嘿 宝贝 Hey, baby.
噢 啊 Oh, wow.
亲爱的 你能抱走她吗？ Honey, could you please take her?
嗯？ Hm?
抱走她 我抱不住了 Take her I can't.
好好 我接住你了 接住了 Yeah, yeah, yeah. I got you. I got you.
老爸和布伦达什么时候来？ When are, um, Daddy and Brenda supposed to get here?
他们说一小时内就过来 Um, they said they should be here within the hour.
好 Okay.
你走之前有备好一瓶牛奶吗？ Did you make that last bottle before you left?
我现在立马去弄 I'm doing it right now.
宝贝 你确定你会吗？因为我不... Baby, are you sure you got it? 'Cause I don't...
当然 会 Yeah, sure, yeah.
你听起来可不太确定 You don't sound too convincing.
我能行的 I got it.
好了 好了 妈咪来了 Okay, okay, Mommy's coming.
妈咪来了宝贝 别哭了 Mommy's coming, baby. Don't cry, honey.
好了 Okay.
给妈咪一点时间好吗？ Just give Mommy some time, okay?
一点时间 Mommy time.
噢 帕特丽夏 别哭宝贝 Oh, Patricia don't cry, baby.
好吗？ Okay?
好了 我来了宝贝 Okay, I'm coming baby.
我来了 给我一点时间 好吗？ I'm coming. Just give me some time, okay?
好了 我来了 宝贝 Okay, I'm coming, baby.
好了 我来了 Okay, I'm coming.
好了 我不知道这些够不够 但是... Here we go. I don't know if this is gonna be enough, but...
塔莎 Tasha!
在化疗和怀孕的影响下 Between the chemo and the pregnancy,
她贫血非常严重 she's extremely anemic.
流向她大脑的血液匮乏 She's losing blood flow to her brain
所以跌倒后陷入昏迷 and it's caused her to slip into a coma.
现在 我们在尝试不同的药物 Now, there are different medicines we are trying,
但是可能需要输血 but a blood transfusion may have to be performed.
没有足够的血液流向大脑的话 Without proper blood flow to her brain,
她的各个器官可能会衰竭 her organs could shut down.
如果出现这种情况 我们所能做的就不多了 And if that happens, there's not much that we can do.
杰克逊太太需要坚强抗争 Mrs. Jackson needs to fight.
你知道你是以你的祖母命名的吗？ Did you know you were named after your grandmama?
没错 我爱她 That's right. I loved me some her.
她是我在世界上最好最好的朋友 She was my bestest friend in the whole world.
我当时刚刚搬进这个小区 I had just moved to the neighborhood,
我没有朋友 and I didn't have one friend.
一连数周我都独自坐在门廊上 For weeks I sat up on my porch
看着她在街对面玩跳绳 and watched her playing jump rope across the street.
终于有一天 她朝我走过来 Finally one day, she marched over to me
说道"你什么毛病？" and said, "What's wrong with you?
赶紧从门廊上起来过来和我一起玩啊 Get off that porch right now and come and play with me."
从那天起 我们就一直在一起 And from that day forward we were connected at the hip.
直到她去世的那天 Until the day she passed.
我还没有听过这个 I never heard that story about
你和帕特丽夏第一次见面的故事 how you and Patricia met before.
我没听到你进门 I didn't hear you come in.
塔莎怎么样？ How's Tasha?
没什么起色 Nothing's really changed.
她怀孕了 I mean, she had a...
做了乳房切除手术 做了化疗 pregnancy, a mastectomy, chemo,
都安全分娩了 这都为了什么？ delivered a baby safely, all for what?
为了现在躺在医院与死亡抗争吗？ So she can get laid up in a hospital fighting for her life?
贫血？ Anemic?
我们到现在都还不知道 And we still don't know if the cancer's gone
她的癌细胞有没有清理干净 into remission yet.
我知道 I know.
这太不公平了 我希望我能去看看她 It's so unfair. I wish I could go see her.
你可以去 我来照看宝宝 You can. I can sit with the baby.
不 她会希望我留在这儿照顾帕特丽夏 No, she'd want me to stay here and take care of Patricia.
我在想... 我们应该结婚 I was thinking that uh... we should get married.
我等你说这话已经等了太久 但是... I've been waiting a long time to hear those words, but...
但是什么？ But what?
你在害怕 梅尔文 You're scared right now, Melvin.
你不知道塔莎最后会怎么样 You don't know what's gonna happen with Tasha,
你想我留在这儿 and you want me to stick around.
不是因为这个 That's not it.
就是因为这个 Yes, it is.
我离开过一次 你觉得我会再次离开 I left once and you're thinking maybe I'll leave again.
你不喜欢独自一人 And you don't like to be alone.
我的想法和感受不用由你来告诉我 Don't tell me what I'm feeling and what I'm thinking.
我向你求婚是因为我爱你 I asked you because I love you.
没错 当我得知塔莎得病那时 And yes, I know what I said to you when I found out
我对你说了些难听的话 我很抱歉 about Tasha was harsh, and I'm sorry for that.
但我是真的爱你 But I really do love you.
你一直以来在为我照料我的家人 And you've taken care of my family for me.
你觉得我做这些是为了你？ You think I do all this for you?
我照顾你们是因为我最好的朋友 I take care of all of you because my best friend isn't here
不能亲自照顾你们 to take care of you herself.
我要照顾宝宝 I'm taking care of the baby
还要确保伯尼回家时能吃上一口热饭 and trying to make sure Bernie has a hot meal when he gets home.
我现在没有时间考虑嫁给你的事 I don't have time to think about marrying you right now.
塔莎 Tasha.
醒醒 Wake up.
帕特丽夏需要你 宝贝 Patricia needs you, baby.
我需要你 I need you.
对不起 马上就好了 对不起 I'm sorry. It'll be over... It'll be over soon. I'm sorry.
抱歉抱歉 I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
我的天 我很抱歉 Oh my God, I'm sorry.
我的天 我知道我知道 抱歉 Oh my God. I know. I know, I'm sorry.
塔莎 Tasha.
妈妈？ Mama?
我以为我已经教过你如何战斗了 I thought I taught you to fight?
你确实教了 You did.
那你为什么不和这个战斗呢 宝贝？ Well, why aren't you fighting this, baby?
妈妈 我已经打了一场漂亮的胜仗 但现在我做不到了 Mama, I fought the good fight, but I can't.
-我累了 -不论如何你都要战斗 亲爱的 - I'm tired. - Oh, you fight anyway, honey.
你捏紧拳头 用尽全部力气 You ball your fist up and you swing at this thing
向这东西挥去 亲爱的 with everything you got, honey.
-但是 我做不到 -没有但是 - But, I can't-- - No buts.
不要放弃 你不能放弃 Don't give up. You can't give up.
-妈妈 -你能行的 - Mama. - You got it.
妈妈 等等 Mama, wait.
妈妈 等等别走 妈妈 Mama, wait don't go. Mama.
妈妈 请不要再离开我 Mama, don't leave me again, please.
伯尼快醒醒 她醒了 Bernie, wake up. She's awake.
宝贝 Baby!
我去叫护士来 I'm gonna go get a nurse.
好了 嘿看着我 宝贝 看着我 Okay. Hey, hey look at me, hey baby look,
你插着喉管 you have a tube in your throat.
会有人过来取 Somebody's coming to get it.
梅尔文已经去叫人了 好吗？ Melvin went to go get someone, okay?
放松 他们会给你取出来的 好吗 Relax. They'll take it out, okay.
三个月后
祝你生日快乐 孩他妈 Happy birthday, mommy.
祝你生日快乐 亲爱的孩他妈 Happy birthday, dear mommy.
祝你生日快乐 Happy birthday to you.
来吧 许个愿 Go ahead. Make a wish.
我的愿望已经都实现了 All my wishes have come true.
是啊 Yes.
那个小可爱在哪儿？ Where's that little munchkin?
她终于睡着了 就在我们要出发的时候 She's finally asleep, right as we're about to leave.
噢 当然了 Oh, course she is.
你知道吗 我已经捣鼓这发型一阵子了 You know what, um, I've been playing with this for a while.
这短发也不算太糟 是吗？ This short hair's not so bad is it?
我觉得你不管怎样都很美丽 I think you look gorgeous either way.
美丽且无癌 Gorgeous and cancer-free.
美丽无癌 Gorgeous and cancer-free.
好极了 Yes.
怎么 你要吃掉我的蛋糕吗？ So what, you're just gonna eat my cupcake?
你要吃吗？ You gonna eat this?
-不是吧 伯尼？ -咋？ -Really, Bernie? -What?
是时候你该给我戴上戒指了 And it's about time you put a ring on it.
好了 There we go.
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